You do everything you can to please them and they still aren’t satisfied! UGGGGHHH! Why do THEY have to be so difficult? Don’t they see how hard YOU try?
Have you ever thought perhaps the “problem” is YOU!
Were you taught, “Treat others how you would like to be treated”? Could this be your issue? Maybe you need to learn to love others as they want to feel loved!
I read a book years ago, “The 5 Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate”.
I highly recommend this book for anyone in a relationship. Essentially, the book describes how we typically express, experience and feel loved. The author, Gary Chapman, believes there are 5 primary love languages.
- Quality Time
- Acts of Service
- Physical Touch
- Words of Affirmation
Let me give you an example.
Jay’s love language is physical touch. He loves to be touched whether through a massage, a hug, and/or sexual intimacy. He feels neglected when he is not being touched. Plus, when he wants to show me love, he will grab and hold me. He truly loves through physical touch. I on the other hand, feel loved when he is providing acts of service.
When Jay will make meals for us or work 15 hours a day for us, I feel truly loved. The effort he puts in to accomplishing things for me and our family allows me to see how much he truly cares. Interestingly enough, I love to do for others ! Jay often says I am the master enabler. I do this out of love not realizing I am giving love as I feel loved.
If you want to know what your love language is then look at how you give love. This is usually how you feel loved.
Once you and your mate know each other’s love language then you can truly express your love to one another.
What good is it being fabulously fit without true love in your life? Love is the truest expression of our natural selves.
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There is no harm in looking inward. Strive to become more self aware while at the same time strengthening your relationship with your significant other.
Be the Best YOU at any age!